How to save your relationship even if it’s in the rocks

7128791375_eb59c31db8All relationships go through this. After some time you just ask yourself: Do I want to be with him / her for the rest of my life? When one of the partners starts having doubts, the relationship starts to suffer because that partner starts to withdraw from the togetherness and the other one will feel not loved like before. Both feel miserable in this situation. So, here are a few things I can recommend for you to do when you start feeling like you’re walking on a right rope.

1. Go on a romantic date

This will not be the regular handouts at the regular places. Imagine – where would you go on a date with someone for the first time if you secretly knew that they are The One. How would you behave, how will you show them that you find them very attractive, very interesting. And most importantly – how will you show that you want this – the spark between the two of you – to continue on.

2. Make a plan about something together

Ideally, if you are already in a happy, stable long term relationship where the boredom and monotony has just creeped in – this is the perfect exercise for you. But even if you are on the brink of separation and things are not looking good, you can try this exercise. Sit down the two of you and make plans for something that the two of you will do together. The easiest thing that comes to mind is – each of you can share how they see themselves one year from and ask your partner to advise you on how to achieve that. Are there dreams that the two of you share, have shared?

3. Go to new places and do new things

Do you always take the same road home, frequent the same places, do the same things in the weekends. Routines kill the enthusiasm and the interest. Try to go to new places, new restaurants, a new beach, new city. Try to put both of you in a situation that is new for both of you.

Another thing you can try is – find something that both of you will do for fun, something new, something that none of you have tried before. It could be dancing lessons, cooking classes, renovation project or just about anything that can be a brand new experience for both of you.

For a step-by-step approach to making these changes happen. Your first step is to go to

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